Dating is like a game of chance. Sometimes you hit the jackpot, other times you just wanna run for the hills. We asked some guys to share their biggest “uh-oh” moments on dates. Spoiler: Some are totally relatable, some are just plain wild. Ready for the tea? Let’s dive in!
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Nothing kills the vibe faster than someone being nasty to servers. Like, treat people right - it's not that hard. If they’re rude to dining staff, that’s an immediate nope for me.
Someone who needs to throw shade at others just to feel good about themselves? No thanks, I don’t do bad vibes.
Ever gone on a date where you do ALL the talking? Yeah, me too. When they answer with 'It's alright' or 'Yeah, it's a job,' that's a total snooze fest.
Playing tests or mind games? Pass. I’m here for real talk and chill vibes, not drama episodes every day.
If she’s broadcasting every little moment online, it’s a huge eye-roll. Can a date just be, you know, private?
When someone bottles up what bugs them and then explodes months later? Guys aren’t mind readers, babe - just say what’s on your mind!
If she calls me dumb or stupid, it stings way too much. I may not be perfect, but disrespect is a total deal-breaker.
Never saying sorry, lying, trying to make me jealous, being lazy or boring... yeah, I’m swiping left.
Someone with NO interests at all? That’s just sad. I love chatting about what fires people up - makeup, movies, whatever. Give me spark!
Non-stop scrolling during a date? I get it, sometimes important calls happen - but if your phone has more of my attention than you do, that’s a problem.
If you want me to drop everything every second you call, then you gotta go. I have my life, you have yours.
Don’t say 'I don't know, you decide,' then get mad about it. Make up your mind or give me clues! Also, have a hobby. I have mine, you should have yours.
Everyone says they hate drama, but some people bring more than their fair share. If you’re one of those, no thanks.
If she can’t even toss out ideas for what to do, I start questioning if the date is even worth it. Be a bit more interesting, please!
I’m child-free and happy that way. Dating single moms? Hard pass. It’s just fair to everyone involved.
If you spell like a potato and don’t seem to read much, it’s a no from me. Also, don’t come with super high expectations. Dating isn’t a mold - it’s a surprise party.
Calling me your boyfriend after one or two dates? I’m out faster than you can say 'commitment.'
Bad breath on date one? That’s a nope. Also, don’t be shady about existing relationships - it’s just messy.
If I gotta be the chatty host every time, then forget it. Bring something interesting to the table!
When one person’s doing all the work in the relationship - hard pass. We’re a team here, people.
If someone’s on the fence about dating me, I’d rather be with someone who's all in. No fence-sitters, thanks.
When she says, 'I don’t have any girlfriends,' that sets off my radar. What’s the story there?
If your idea of fun is just watching TV and drinking, I’m not attracted. Passion makes people interesting!
When the TV’s on full blast during a date, and you can’t even get a glance? Distraction fail.
People who always need to hear 'It's okay' or 'You’re great' - it's exhausting. Confidence, please!
If you don’t care to ask how I’m doing or show interest, that’s a massive turnoff. We all want a little love, right?
There’s a reason hyenas only laugh once a year. If your laugh bugs me, that’s a deal-breaker.
Food is life. If you’re picky and won’t try new things, how do you expect to enjoy life with me?

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