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Dating is like a game of chance. Sometimes you hit the jackpot, other times you just wanna run for the hills. We asked some guys to share their biggest “uh-oh” moments on dates. Spoiler: Some are totally relatable, some are just plain wild. Ready for the tea? Let’s dive in!

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#1

gekosaurus Report

Nothing kills the vibe faster than someone being nasty to servers. Like, treat people right - it's not that hard. If they’re rude to dining staff, that’s an immediate nope for me.

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    #2

    JestaKilla Report

    Someone who needs to throw shade at others just to feel good about themselves? No thanks, I don’t do bad vibes.

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    #3

    The Most Epic Dating Deal-Breakers Guys Spilled (And You Won't Believe #7)

    anon , Wavebreak Media / freepik (not the actual photo) Report

    Ever gone on a date where you do ALL the talking? Yeah, me too. When they answer with 'It's alright' or 'Yeah, it's a job,' that's a total snooze fest.

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    #4

    The Most Epic Dating Deal-Breakers Guys Spilled (And You Won't Believe #7)

    PoorMansTonyStark , drobotdean / freepik (not the actual photo) Report

    Playing tests or mind games? Pass. I’m here for real talk and chill vibes, not drama episodes every day.

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    #5

    The Most Epic Dating Deal-Breakers Guys Spilled (And You Won't Believe #7)

    Dessel90 , Rohit Raj / Unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

    Smoking? Big nope for me. It’s just not sexy.

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    #6

    drdoom Report

    If she’s broadcasting every little moment online, it’s a huge eye-roll. Can a date just be, you know, private?

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    #7

    MagmaTumbler Report

    When someone bottles up what bugs them and then explodes months later? Guys aren’t mind readers, babe - just say what’s on your mind!

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    #8

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    JustAShark22 , EyeEm / freepik (not the actual photo) Report

    If she calls me dumb or stupid, it stings way too much. I may not be perfect, but disrespect is a total deal-breaker.

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    #9

    The Most Epic Dating Deal-Breakers Guys Spilled (And You Won't Believe #7)

    Casperboy68 , Sasun Bughdaryan / Unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

    Never saying sorry, lying, trying to make me jealous, being lazy or boring... yeah, I’m swiping left.

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    #10

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    pholyuhm , marymarkevich / freepik (not the actual photo) Report

    Someone with NO interests at all? That’s just sad. I love chatting about what fires people up - makeup, movies, whatever. Give me spark!

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    #11

    anon Report

    Non-stop scrolling during a date? I get it, sometimes important calls happen - but if your phone has more of my attention than you do, that’s a problem.

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    #12

    The Most Epic Dating Deal-Breakers Guys Spilled (And You Won't Believe #7)

    Ihateregistering6 , Shaya Pets / Unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

    Women carrying tiny dogs around like purses? Not my vibe.

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    #13

    TurntdePage Report

    Personal space is a must. If you’re clingy 24/7, I’m running for the hills.

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    #14

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    anon Report

    Kids? Nope. Stress levels too high already. Been there, wasn’t great.

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    #15

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    SheetShitter , avistock / freepik (not the actual photo) Report

    Cheating in any form? Nope nope nope. If you’re not serious about loyalty, I’m out.

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    #16

    quokkaindemnity Report

    If you want me to drop everything every second you call, then you gotta go. I have my life, you have yours.

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    #17

    anon Report

    Don’t say 'I don't know, you decide,' then get mad about it. Make up your mind or give me clues! Also, have a hobby. I have mine, you should have yours.

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    #18

    wazzie19 Report

    Thinking dinner’s on me after a date or two? That’s a quick way to kill the mood.

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    #19

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    SedatedSwede , Ste Lorena / Unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

    Everyone says they hate drama, but some people bring more than their fair share. If you’re one of those, no thanks.

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    #20

    DrAwesome96 Report

    Don’t judge me for the stuff I’m into. Support or scram.

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    #21

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    teddyballgame9 , cookie_studio / freepik (not the actual photo) Report

    If she can’t even toss out ideas for what to do, I start questioning if the date is even worth it. Be a bit more interesting, please!

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    #22

    Peashout Report

    Phones glued to faces all night? Nope. Social media can wait.

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    #23

    anon Report

    I’m child-free and happy that way. Dating single moms? Hard pass. It’s just fair to everyone involved.

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    #24

    DMCinDet Report

    If you spell like a potato and don’t seem to read much, it’s a no from me. Also, don’t come with super high expectations. Dating isn’t a mold - it’s a surprise party.

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    #25

    siler7 Report

    Bad driving or interrupting me mid-sentence? You’re on a short list of people to avoid.

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    #26

    LankyDemon Report

    Calling me your boyfriend after one or two dates? I’m out faster than you can say 'commitment.'

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    #27

    The Most Epic Dating Deal-Breakers Guys Spilled (And You Won't Believe #7)

    nujurzy87 Report

    Bad breath on date one? That’s a nope. Also, don’t be shady about existing relationships - it’s just messy.

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    #28

    The Most Epic Dating Deal-Breakers Guys Spilled (And You Won't Believe #7)

    Surfing_Ninjas , lookstudio / freepik (not the actual photo) Report

    If I gotta be the chatty host every time, then forget it. Bring something interesting to the table!

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    #29

    MVB1837 Report

    When one person’s doing all the work in the relationship - hard pass. We’re a team here, people.

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    #30

    badashly Report

    Constant neediness mixed with zero confidence? Instant turn-off.

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    #31

    JerBear_2008 Report

    If someone’s on the fence about dating me, I’d rather be with someone who's all in. No fence-sitters, thanks.

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    #32

    heyyouknowmeto Report

    When she says, 'I don’t have any girlfriends,' that sets off my radar. What’s the story there?

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    #33

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    jabanobotha , Glenn Carstens-Peters / Unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

    If your idea of fun is just watching TV and drinking, I’m not attracted. Passion makes people interesting!

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    #34

    laterdude Report

    When the TV’s on full blast during a date, and you can’t even get a glance? Distraction fail.

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    #35

    rushaz Report

    Over-the-top drama, lying, crazy jealousy? Hard pass. I don’t need that in my life.

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    #36

    anon Report

    People who always need to hear 'It's okay' or 'You’re great' - it's exhausting. Confidence, please!

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    Closetmadscientist , freepik (not the actual photo) Report

    If you don’t have goals or dreams, I’m gonna have to keep scrolling.

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    #38

    I_lie_for_karma__ Report

    If you want to date me but aren’t picky about standards, well... that’s a big nope.

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    #39

    KlownPuree Report

    Bragging about landing jobs by lying on your resume? That’s a deal-breaker right there.

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    #40

    Diarykiller Report

    If you don’t care to ask how I’m doing or show interest, that’s a massive turnoff. We all want a little love, right?

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    #41

    anon Report

    Said she loves to nap and sleep on a first date. Who does that??

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    #42

    jrm1560 Report

    Bad teeth can be a serious no-go. Smile bright, please!

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    #43

    hfaskldh Report

    Girls who lead you on just for attention? That’s just using people - hard pass.

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    #44

    dofubrain Report

    Feminists who play by their own rules and expect everyone else to just nod along? Uh-uh.

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    #45

    magic_louse Report

    There’s a reason hyenas only laugh once a year. If your laugh bugs me, that’s a deal-breaker.

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    #46

    LittleLucas Report

    Food is life. If you’re picky and won’t try new things, how do you expect to enjoy life with me?

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    #47

    shadyslims Report

    Financial responsibility matters. Low credit score? That’s a red flag.

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