Alright, quick chat! Today we're diving into the wild world of grudges – those juicy little feelings some folks just won't let go of, no matter how long it's been. From annoying exes to big ol' companies, these stories prove grudges can last FOREVER. Ready for some dramatic beef? Let's jump in!
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H&M chopped up perfectly good winter clothes in NYC instead of donating them. Total brand-protecting fashion fail. Shopper since? Nope.
Everyone feels all kinds of emotions, like love, fear, and pure boredom, according to psychologist Jonice Webb. But sometimes, feelings mix and create this weird soup of emotions, like grudges.
Yep, grudges are basically holding onto anger or bitterness way longer than you should. They’re like those awkward leftovers you keep forgetting in the back of the fridge.
Paid for my niece’s senior ring and graduation photos because my brother wouldn’t. Turns out, my ex sister-in-law skimmed in front of BOTH of us. What a sneaky move!
Sorry USA! One person’s gone full anti-U.S. mega corporation mode - might never even visit again.
On 9/11, a local convenience store suddenly doubled their gas prices. That was the last straw. 24 years and counting on this grudge.
A grudge is basically a fancy word for "I'm still salty about that." It’s deep resentment that sticks around like an unwanted party guest. But grudges always have a story - usually something annoying or hurtful that happened ages ago.
Sometimes grudges just show up uninvited, but often they mean something bigger’s going on under the surface.
9th grade English drama: wrote a paper, was one tiny paragraph short, got an F without reading. So much for hard work. School? Never again.
Never owned an Apple product by choice. Forced U2 album on everyone? Nope. Movies avoiding villains using iPhones? Not a fan. Plus, their proprietary tech is a trap.
Top grudges: Nestle’s water skimming (30+ years), Monsanto’s shady deeds (20 years), Amazon & Chick-fil-A tied (10 years), Home Depot drama (4 years). That’s some serious staying power.
The wild part? Grudges can be super clingy. People say "holding a grudge" for a reason – it’s like they’re hugging it tight, refusing to say goodbye.
Some of the grudges we’re about to share have been brewing for decades! Talk about dedication.
My first teen accident? Instead of support, State Farm dropped me like I was hot. Not exactly the "good neighbor" they brag about.
After the Affordable Care Act, Wal-Mart decided paying fines was cheaper than insuring employees. 15 years later, still avoiding their aisles.
Brains are sneaky. They love to replay bad vibes to keep us “safe,” even though it just makes us grouchier. Holding onto grudges can feel like control, even if it’s mostly an illusion.
Maybe it’s our brain’s way of saying, “Never again!”
In college, told to scram from Betsy Johnson for being “fatties.” Years later, helped a diva get on her plane - and the irony? Betsy now sells plus sizes. Still not shopping there, but might burn something for warmth!
Wells Fargo opened fake accounts for years. Not banking with them ever again, and I tell their recruiters exactly how I feel.
Sure, people say we should forgive more because grudges make us cranky and can ruin friendships. But hey, letting go is easier said than done, right?
Got a grudge you just can’t quit? Spill the tea with us!
Never touching Nestle since their ex-CEO said water isn’t a human right. And Dell? Owner’s a total jerk.
Blue Bell knew about listeria in their gear but kept selling anyway. People died. Instant boycott.
Paid AT&T for a Yellow Pages ad that never ran. Took a YEAR to get the money back. Nope, no forgiveness here.
North Face wrecked my backpack when following care instructions and then wouldn’t fix it or even return it. Not cool.
Verizon messed up my bill, gave me a $100 voucher, then accused me of stealing it. Plus, they charged me $50 for the call transcript. Switched carriers and never looked back.
Grade school was wild. Matthew hit me on the head with a hockey stick during an argument over superhero powers. The 6 million dollar man definitely can’t run on water. I’m 56. Still bugged.
When Jello killed pudding pops while I was pregnant, that was it. I only touch Hunt's pudding and Royal gelatin now. Nearly 30 years strong.
Bonus story: stole a pen as a kid and got caught by a nosy neighbor. Took the nickname "Esther who stole my stolen pen" seriously ever since.
Exxon takes the longest grudge prize, with Hobby Lobby and Chick-fil-A hot on its heels. No love lost here.
That kid in 3rd grade who dissed my mom? I waited till the teacher left, then flipped his desk. He cried. Instant grudge.
Disney took Star Wars and somehow turned it downhill. That’s a huge fat grudge right there.
Chick-fil-A? Living six blocks from Costco and getting gas there instead. No Chick-fil-A for me.

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