57 Things Guys Wish They Could Shout Out Loud to Women

Those fake eyelashes look ridiculous...

That’s enough perfume.

Stop following fashion trends. They’re basically making you buy stuff you don’t need, and some of it just looks downright goofy.

That most "sweet" women’s perfumes smell vile; honestly, you smell way better without them.

The silly things I do mean a lot to me. That goofy T-shirt? I really like it. Let me have my small joys, and I’ll open up with the big stuff too.

We don’t care about your nails. Never did, never will.

We want you to help us assemble our Lego Millennium Falcon.

Compliment us. I actually teared up when a guy (not even into me) complimented my jacket and shoes. It stuck with me!

Please hug and spoon me first!

We actually do get our feelings hurt. We just don’t say it because we were taught not to. It’s tiring.

Misandry is not attractive or appealing.

We love you in all your forms - tall, short, funny, shy, dressed, naked, clumsy, graceful... We find it hard to say it right, but we love you. You’re the most important part of our lives.

Sometimes when you tell me about something at work, I honestly think you’re in the wrong.

When I see a cool outfit or hairstyle, I want to say it. But I’m married and don’t want it to seem like I’m flirting.

We actually love gentleness and tenderness. Also, we need peace in our lives.

It’s really tough for us to get over someone when we truly fell in love.

Peace matters more than drama. A woman who brings calm, respect, and loyalty totally stands out.

Sometimes we like to be wined and dined too! Maybe not fancy, but definitely appreciated.

Being pregnant, on your period, menopausal, or post-partum is NO excuse for treating people like garbage. If it’s not okay at the drive-thru, it’s not okay at home.

Us zoning out or going quiet doesn’t mean we’re mad. It means we’ve mentally checked out for a bit. It's a nice chill spot we like to visit daily.

I know mansplaining happens, but I genuinely just like talking about stuff I’m into. Sorry if it turns into an info dump; I just have to finish my thoughts!

Making yourself a martyr isn’t helpful. We’ll just get annoyed you don't trust us to help ease your load.

I'm not following you; it’s just awkward when we walk the same way and I try to pass. I’d announce it, but that’s weird. So I wait and tie my shoelaces instead.

We are not as strong as we pretend to be.

Your behavior and attitude toward others wouldn’t be tolerated for a second if you were guys.

Sometimes we have zero clue about how you think or feel. We wanna get it right but don’t admit when we’re lost because it makes us feel dumb. Secretly, we want you to say you trust us!

This story is so long and you’re telling it horribly.

Not speaking for all men, but I love how easy it is for me to get along with women compared to men. Women are tough and awesome; men? Big babies.

She told me to tell her if she ever sounded like her mother. That never happened. The telling part, that is.

You snored last night.

Many guys wish they could say how much they long for emotional safety and real appreciation. They’re supposed to be the ‘unshakable providers’ but really want to be vulnerable without getting shut down.

We don’t understand 90% of home decor trends, but we support them anyway.

Tell me if you want me to propose solutions or just listen...

The love we feel gives us purpose and drives us to stick around, even when life’s messy. You don’t just make us belong, you give us the fight to keep going.

Sometimes, in fact, you are acting a little crazy. Not always, but sometimes.

We’re often just as insecure as you. We’re just better at hiding it.

Other girls look good, even if we’re in a relationship. Just don’t stare or act on it, and be respectful.

YOU CAN CHOOSE WHEREVER YOU WANT TO EAT. If not, I choose. But you can’t pick neither.

EAT FOOD, IT'S GOOD FOR YOU AND WILL IMPROVE YOUR MOOD.

What do you want? No games, just get to the point.

Stop bringing up problems and anxieties just before bed. I’m all ears during the day, but when my head hits the pillow, I’m in sleep mode!

Honestly, sometimes at the gym some of you gals are hella strong. I want to compliment, but worries about coming off creepy hold me back.

We like watching TV without someone talking nonstop.

We notice the little things you do and really appreciate them. It’s just awkward to suddenly drop that truth into conversation.

We’d love to be more vulnerable, but it seems like you like us less when we show that side.

For me, taking things slow isn’t about not caring. It’s because of trauma and trust issues. Some women don’t get that, and it’s tough on me.

We low-key love when you ask for our opinion, even if we act like it’s a hassle. Just say the word!

When you ask us to fix something and we do it, please don’t say “I could have done that.” We know. You asked us. Just enjoy the moment!

Just because it’s quiet doesn’t mean you have to talk.

I had a friend with really bad breath who always complained about being single. No one wanted to tell her.

I wish you showed me the same level of attention to my feelings that I show you.

It’s emotionally immature to get mad at me because you did something that made me mad at you. It’s like punishing openness with punishment - super unhealthy.

Why do you get mad that I try to solve your problems but I can’t be mad when you just want to listen? Why isn’t this a two-way street?

I genuinely mean the kind things I say because spending time with you makes me feel understood like never before.

I have a co-worker who interrupts and doesn’t listen fully. I want to tell her but I’m scared she’ll interrupt again and not accept it.

All the guys I know are simple, logic-loving creatures. I’m bad at guessing games or surprises. If you come with a problem, my first thought is to solve it.

When we go quiet in the middle of a conversation, it’s not you. We’re thinking about something totally random - like a movie from 2003. It means nothing.