Hey! We’re jumping straight into some jaw-dropping tales about friends who did the absolute unthinkable. Brace yourself, because these stories are all about shocking moments when a friendship just couldn't survive one crazy thing. Let’s dive in!
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My firstborn passed away and instead of coming to the funeral… she chose a concert. Let’s just say we never spoke again.
Didn’t come to my wedding because “That’s my baby’s bedtime.” I was MOH at her wedding 2 years prior.
Let my dog outside while I was gone, said he bolted out the back door, then she went home to eat dinner and never bothered to look for him. Didn’t tell me until 2 hrs later and he was found dead 5 days later. Yeah, not talking.
She accidentally called me on her Apple Watch while telling a friend one of my biggest secrets - and just laughed about it. Wow.
Got angry at me for getting a hysterectomy because I didn’t take her advice and try Chinese herbal medicine instead. Well, that’s one way to end a friendship.
Believed my ex-husband instead of me when I accused him of domestic assault (I had marks, police reports, and threats). Yep, that’s a wrap for us.
I was about to go into surgery, scared out of my mind, texting her to distract myself - and she hits me with “the world doesn’t stop just cause you’re sick.” Instant friendship ghost.
Texting me from an unknown number harassing me, then pretending to “help” figure out who it was. Like some drama from a Netflix doc. Nope.
I got pregnant in college, and she said I'd be a bad mom. Haven’t talked since. Meanwhile, my daughter is a dance star and genius. Take that, negativity!
I came out as a lesbian at 51, and just like that, 29 years of friendship disappeared. Ouch.
My first daughter was stillborn and after struggling to get pregnant again, she accidentally got pregnant and said to me, “hurry up and have a baby.” Nope.
She complained I was “selfish” for getting married before her. My mom was dying from cancer, and I wanted her there. That was the last straw.
Covid hit while we were in Mexico. Flights were cancelling fast. I went to change OUR flights, but she already changed hers—leaving me behind. I quietly left the resort and flew home. She got stuck and had to wait days for an emergency flight. Yeah, no more talking.
She literally measured all the girls’ waists in our friend group and kicked me out because I was “too fat.” No thanks.
Maybe it sounds harsh, but when she clicked her fingers at the barman on a night out, I just knew I’d never see her again. And I haven’t.
I almost died (stabbed 30 times). My best friend worked with the stabber's friends and instead of avoiding them, she befriended all and invited them to our new place - totally doxxed me. No thanks.
She told her parents we were going on a trip. They got in a bad car accident, and her mom, thinking she was with me, called my mom at 4 am yelling my name. My mom had a heart attack the next day. That was the last straw.
She sold Mary Kay makeup and I placed a big order. She never ordered the stuff but refused to refund. When I took it to my credit card company, she faked delivery photos - driving to my place when I wasn’t home and snapping pics of an empty bag. Wow!
She told my husband she loved him and that he should have married her instead. Said when we divorced, I should call her. She was a bridesmaid in my wedding... but only for him.
After three years trying IVF and surgeries, I finally got pregnant. She said she’d “help me out by pushing me down the stairs.” That was my BEST FRIEND of 20 years. Instant cut off.
She acted like her boyfriend breaking up with her was the same as my brother passing away. Nope, sorry.
Left me in a city I didn’t know, alone with her 10-month-old, and was unreachable for 4 hours. Nightmare material.
She just had to get with every guy I ever had an interest in or dated. All of them. I was done.
I had a rough year at work, and she never asked how I was or cared - always talking about herself. Realized I was in a one-way friendship, so I stopped asking questions and stopped replying. We don’t talk anymore - and honestly, I feel great.
When she told me her miscarriage was worse than me losing my 7-week-old son—because at least I got to meet him and be a parent. Wow.
Left me on day 3 of a 5-day festival in another country, took my tent and camping gear, leaving me just a patch of grass. She lost her ID and money earlier and I bailed her out, but she didn’t even say bye. Then she went around badmouthing me to my friends and coworkers, saying I was a problem and didn’t take her sobriety seriously. Took 2.5 years just to find out why. Still no clue.
My college best friend. I stopped texting her first, and she literally never reached out again.
“Comforted” me after a rough breakup while secretly texting my ex to choose her. Thanks for the double-sided stab!
I saw her gaslight her boyfriend and instantly realized she’d been doing that to me for years.
Told her I had a crush, she slept with him next day. When I was upset, she threw a drink in my face and called me a bad friend. Yikes.
My husband and she were in a band. After kids, she demanded every second of his time, even on special days. Told me my job was to let him live his dream, even if I had no life. Made him choose. She was shocked he chose us and went all out online against him. Now he’s happier in a new band.
She told me she got engaged right after my dad died and got mad I wasn’t excited. Said I “should’ve been honored” because my dad’s death reminded her boyfriend life is short. Wow.
The day after me and my girl broke up, they went on a date—and posted about it online. He lived with me then. Yup, we’re done.
I got chin liposuction, and she started editing our pics to make my chin look bigger. Didn’t notice till she messed up badly and distorted my teeth. No thanks.
She sat me down and gave me a bullet list of every reason she disliked me. One reason? I was in a photo she didn’t post.
Told her I was struggling with an eating disorder, and she said, “doesn’t look like it.” Ouch!
I was her “date” to her formal and she told me not to eat all day so I’d look good. Later that night, she said, “you ate today, huh?” Pass.
She was super obsessive and possessive. When I said I needed alone time or to hang with others, she freaked out. I haven’t heard from her since.
She got wasted and kissed my husband in front of everyone at my 30th birthday. That was it.
She said my depression wasn’t real because hers was - and apparently her problems were way worse. Thanks for the comparison game.
She told everyone but me that there was an issue between us. Meanwhile, I thought everything was fine.
She set us up for a double date with twins and told me I got the “ugly twin.” Then got mad when my twin wanted to talk to me and hers didn’t. Classic.
She only ever talked about herself, never cared about me or my life. I was just a soundboard. Snooze fest.
I was 7 months pregnant and loved the name Noah. I asked her what she thought. She laughed, yelled 'EWWWW…Noah?!' Haven’t talked since. My son’s name? Yep, Noah.
I stopped texting first to prove she only reached out when she needed something. Months later, still no message other than expecting me at her kid’s birthday. Nope.
She got mad at me anytime I hung out with other people or didn’t answer a phone call. Way too much drama.
I can’t even explain how toxic her lack of accountability and victim-blaming was for me. Life’s way better since she left.
We’d been friends since age 12. She confessed to a horrible crime. I reported her. It re-traumatized me and I’m still recovering from the shock.
We grew up together. My dad saw her as a second daughter. When he died, she stopped talking to me with zero explanation.
She wanted me at all her big life events but wouldn’t text me back when I needed her. Big nope.
He laughed at me when I said I’d publish my first book. My second is out soon and we haven’t spoken since. Bye!
After being the designated driver for her a whole year, I asked her once to be DD. She said no, got upset at me for being upset, then said she didn’t want to be my friend anymore. Cool by me!
Sounds silly, but after 30 years of friendship, she didn’t even know my birthday. Feelings hurt!
I found unflattering pictures of me on her phone. When I confronted her, she said she saved them as my “before” photos for when I lost weight. Rude much?
Best friend for 8 years, long-distance near the end. She drove 12 hrs across the country to see a guy living 2 hrs from me and didn’t even mention it. Wow.
She threw a Christmas party, didn’t invite me but invited a friend she barely knew - and then asked me to dog sit. Okay...
Every day she complained about everything. It made me negative and depressed. I had to walk away.
She said she was ‘too busy’ with work to handle me. I work 80 hours a week; she works 40. Real talk.
Dropped out of my wedding party because her long-term boyfriend didn’t propose and she hated the color lavender - my wedding theme. So classy.
She secretly resented me for months and instead of talking about it as it happened, dumped it all on me at once. Friends shouldn’t do that.
She hid having a huge gay crush on me for years, then after my wedding, she told me she resented my husband and was mad I didn’t choose her.
I was moving from Utah to Texas. On Valentine’s Day, she convinced me to let her go out with MY boyfriend to see if he was a good guy - then they hooked up. There goes the friendship.
Kept telling me she was too busy to hang out, but I saw her posts hanging out with other friends online. That hurt.
She stole money, lived in my house free, trashed towels with hair dye, piled up old food and trash, disappeared at night, ruined curtains and carpet. Total nightmare.

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